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is about the human experience of travel and what it’s all about. Various essays and articles are presented on the subject of travel psychology. Sometimes they appear from time to time in the guise of a ‘course’ or a ‘primer,’ such as, ‘Travel Psychology 101,’ and more. Sometimes a short subject may appear on a very specific subject or theme. An example may be: “What is the Paris Syndrome?” “Why would someone want to know about travel psychology” is another.
I’ve written an ebook and audiobook in my Travel Psychologist Travel Tales Series on the best of my own collected personal travel stories of my extensive life of travel. I’m so proud of this ebook. Why not have a looksee or a listenhear to Travel Tales of Michael Brein: My Best 100?
An Excerpt from
Travel Tales of Michael Brein: My Best 100
When it comes to stretching the truth once in a while, telling occasional white lies or seeing what we can get away with in our travels, we are not necessarily corrupt, evil beings: we are often just people stretching and expanding our boundaries a bit to see what more and how we can be.
Below is one of my best travel stories in my collection involving my visit to the famed “Mouth of Truth” statue in Rome. Not only have I placed my hand in this infamous mouth (and fortunately managed to retract it as well), but I spent a few hours one day observing others and came to a few interesting conclusions.
I’ve written an ebook and audiobook in my Travel Psychologist Travel Tales Series on the best of my own collected personal travel stories of my extensive life of travel. I’m so proud of this ebook. Why not have a looksee or a listenhear to Travel Tales of Michael Brein: My Best 100?
An Excerpt from
Travel Tales of Michael Brein: My Best 100
When it comes to experts and authorities, Americans, for better or worse, tend to rely upon and defer to so-called bogus ‘experts’! To read more about tainted travel advice, please see my recent post elsewhere on this site http://michaelbrein.com/in-the-news-today-57/ Continue reading A Travel Story
September 5, 2015
Hi Dr. Brein,
I was doing research for an article and I came across your website. I can’t believe there are no other travel psychologists! I studied psychology at UCSC and travel is my number one passion, so I’m a bit jealous you beat me to it!
Anyways, I am writing an article regarding the question “Is Travel A Drug?” I can find a million articles on how travel makes us happy but nothing about whether it can be addictive. We all know about the blues that can occur when returning from a long trip and the urge we have to go back. I have many friends that are afraid to come home from their travels because travel is the only thing that really makes them happy. I would love to hear your take on the following questions for my article:
1. Can travel change the brain to where it starts to crave new experiences the way a heroin addict craves heroin?
I can’t really prove this or make a good case, but I suspect that there probably are changes in the brains of habitual travelers. Similar changes that may occur in the brain pathways from the rewards of travel as extreme adventurers, e.g., mountain climbers probably get from the exhilaration that results from the extreme degrees of satisfaction and accomplishment of complex physical adventurous tasks (such as mountain climbing, white water rafting, and so on).
See my document “The Exhilaration of Travel: Why I Love to Travel.”
2. Can travel act as a drug that has positive long term effects? Negative long term effects?
Notwithstanding, not being able to resolutely affirm brain pathway changes from travel, nonetheless, there is a definite “psychological addiction” to travel. Like any other ‘habit,’ over-dependency on just about anything certainly has its drawbacks.
In so far as travel is concerned, I believe that what is so addictive is the immediacy of ‘rewards’ (and punshments) that occurs as a consequence of our actions in travel. We are in, what amounts to, a kind of ‘time machine,’ where events and activities are condensed in time—a microcosmic and kaleidoscopic cornucopia of exciting sensory experiences—all speeded up—in our own travel microcosm.
Consequences of our actions are quicker. Rewards are more imminent (as are rebukes or punishments). The result is that benefits and achievements are more instantaneous—we grow, we mature, we achieve much more quickly than how it happens in our typical mundane daily lives. What can be more satisfying than that!
Travel reins in the Maslow Needs Hierarchy ladder in a condensed period of time. When the rewards flow so quickly in our travels relative to our normal existences, we certainly want more of the same. Hence, a form of addiction!
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Of course, too much of a good thing, might dissuade us or deviate us away from other important life quests.
The people who might suffer the most from too much ‘premature’ travel are those younger individuals who cast aside the normal, important life quests such as education, career, marriage, and so on—the normal life activities that are important to be started in a reasonable, timely fashion.
Thus, there is the danger that the lure of travel could offset these important life activities.
Having said all of the above, I doubt that these effects are that limiting. I cannot personally see any real harmful, long-term effects of continuous travel. Perhaps, fortunately, the costs of continuous travel are self-limiting. And those of us who are fortunate to be able to so much travel—well, we’ve learned how to do it, haven’t we? This, in and of itself, has to be useful in normal living, I would say!
3. Are people afraid of returning from their trips not because they are having too much fun, but because of deeper personal issues they are running away from?
Well, this certainly is a factor. Travel does have its escapist side to it. You can run but you cannot hide forever. Hopefully, travel allows a balance, whereby we have plenty of time to evaluate our lives and issues during travel. Enough so that maybe the time away can be useful for reflection and dealing with pressing issues that await our return.
4. Why do some people feel the need to always be traveling and never return home?
Those of us who are fortunate to have continuous travel-lives might be able to teach the rest of us something. You cannot come away from extensive travel without having learned some very useful, important things that have application to the rest of our lives.
5. Why do some people crave going back abroad even after they just finished a long trip?
It’s, no doubt, among other things, the exhilaration of travel. To me, it is like the first spring breath of fresh air upon walking out the door to the first true early morning of spring, especially after a cold, snowy winter. It’s like the exhilaration of reaching the crest of a hill or the top of a mountain, or the view around the turn of the next corner—the natural-high rush of a magnificent view.
Thank you for any information. In return, you can use any of my stories from my website to share! I love telling/writing my travel stories. They are all here with many more to come: tommygoround.com.
To see Tommy’s completed article, go to “Is Travel a Drug?”
by Michael Brein, Ph.D.,
aka The Travel Psychologist
Why I love to travel: Travel is exhilarating for me. It is like the first spring breath of fresh air upon walking out the door to the first true early morning of spring—especially after a cold, snowy winter. It is like snacking on a solid bar of dark chocolate. It’s like the exhilaration of reaching the crest of a hill or the top of a mountain, or the view around the turn of the next corner—the natural-high rush of a magnificent view.
Talk about the so-called endorphins you get from a variety of life’s experience—only travel can give you a kaleidoscopic cornucopia of exciting novel sensory experiences, all in your own neat little travel microcosm—all in your own little private new corner of your travel world or your travel life.
Continue reading The Exhilaration of Travel: Why I Love to Travel
Someone called me a ‘provocateur’ this morning. At that moment, I didn’t know whether to splash him in the (morning) hot tub (after my daily lap swim), to punch him in the nose, or to thank him. After an instant, thinking about it, I exclaimed, “You know what? You’re quite right!”
How many of these gestures do you know?
http://www.cnn.com/2015/05/29/travel/experts-guide-to-italian-hand-gestures/index.html
To my dear friends with Italian ancestry (or anyone, for that matter):
Are any of these Italian hand gestures familiar to you? Second-nature? Instinctive? American? Universal? I’m curious. What do you think? Anyone?
Tired of being your old mundane, boring self?
The Three R(E)’s of Travel and then Some!
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Why be your old mundane, everyday boring, bored, tired self in your travels and adventures? Just kidding—sort of! You get what I mean.
That is, travel is supposed to be a way to RE-invigorate, RE-juvinate, RE-fresh, RE-set, and RE-invent ourselves, isn’t it?
When you go away on a vacation or adventure you all would like to be and do more than just the typical ordinary things according to your typical ordinary ways, and so on, wouldn’t you?
I mean, travel is a means to becoming a RE-newed person—more of the person we would like ourselves to be, don’t you think?
FIRST FRIDAY!
Why not pause for a moment and maybe reflect a bit on your ‘own’ first Friday. I just had a birthday, so I’m reflecting on my life. Here are my three ‘firsts’ in my life—though of dubious distinction they may be:
The Dreaded Syndrome!
This has happened to me more times than I like to remember. It is the single most dreaded authoritarian command you just don’t ever want to hear. You’ve just crossed the border into this next banana republic country and you’re very anxious and tense because of all the scary stories you’ve recently heard about this place.
Planet Earth
Almost Anywhere
You really just want to turn yourself right around and go back to where, minutes before, you just came from, but it’s far too late for that or regrets. You are now caught between a rock and a hard place–in a no-man’s land of sorts–a damned if you do and damned if you don’t scenario.
Your palms are wet, your armpits are soaked with sweat, your mouth is dry, your knees are knocking, your cheek is twitching, your eyes are darting, your face is fraught with guilt, and der Herr Comandante–actually a low-level functionary working his way up–is not only leering at you–but he is actually looking right THROUGH you!
You may be a smuggler or you may be completely innocent. Or you may be hiding something as innocuous as a white lie, or you cannot know or imagine what, even. YOU ARE GUILTY OF SOME THING! You know this, but you know not of what. Again, this is the one command that you and all other travelers fear with a passion and loathing, and now you just have to deal with it!
Whether innocent or guilty, YOU KNOW HE KNOWS! And, if there’s really nothing at all for him to know, you must realize this: he knows you know he knows, anyway! And you can be sure the he WILL FIND SOMETHING. You are sure he is operating on a well-developed sixth sense!
You’ve heard that perhaps you should slip him something, maybe a $10 bill inside your passport, or maybe just a $5 bill to grease his palms to ease his pain. But you know it’s wrong for him to expect something like this. And who knows, maybe you could land in jail for attempting a bribe, a far worse scenario than you ever expected.
[You’ve tried this once before with a cop who stopped you for a burnt-out taillight in New Jersey. You offered to buy tickets to the Firemen’s Pancake Breakfast. But you failed miserably at it. ]
He stood there silently and sternly for seemingly an eternity, and then he gave you a severe tongue lashing, how that bordered on being a felony.]
What to do? Attempting to bribe simply goes against your grain. It’s just not done in America (hah!). Call it being headstrong or self-righteous. You just won’t do it; you stand on circumstances. You later are told it was naive of you!
This is true and happens all the time. The difference between you, the tourist, and all the others–the more seasoned traveler-adventurer types?–is that, for some unknown reason, they always seem to just walk right on through without the least bit of a hassle, while you will waste dreadful hours of blatant, fearful bureaucratic threats, perpetual bickering and cowering, and finally, anyway, winding up forking over the ultimate, inevitable cash, baksheesh pay-off!
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